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Let Private Divorce Coaching Make Your Process Easier

How divorce coaching with Val Hemminger will make a difference to your experience

You are probably here because you are getting divorced and wondering how divorce coaching is going to assist you and your changing family. You are in the right place.

This is why you want to be in good hands while you go through the process.

The family law industry, including lawyers and judges, has been known to be toxic and broken due to the combative nature of the business, but the good news is that you don’t have to get sucked up in the turmoil as you are getting a divorce.

Separating or divorcing from your spouse is hard enough. At The Better Divorce Project we want to make it easier for you with the tools, tips, and strategies where you build your foundation, empower yourself, and get through getting divorced as peacefully as possible. 

The Better Divorce Project creator, Val Hemminger, has been a divorce lawyer for more than 25 years, serving thousands of changing families. Val has seen first-hand what a messy divorce can do to parents and their children. Families do not belong in courtrooms and it is Val’s vision to transform what can be a very toxic and combative family law industry to be more peaceful and so that separating families can get on with their positive future without making their divorce lawyer's rich!

Divorce doesn’t always have to be the stressful, drama-filled and extraordinarily expensive monster many people struggle with. There is a BETTER way.

Your divorce or separation is uniquely your own. Whether you don’t know where to begin or are just overwhelmed by the sheer amount of information out there, it’s easy to feel alone in the process.

Maybe you are the type of person who feels uncomfortable discussing your situation in a group setting. That’s where I come in!

Let’s work together one-on-one.

You and I will work together as a team to ensure that you have the strategy that is applicable to your unique situation. With consistent one-on-one support, you’ll be better equipped to navigate the separation process. I make this possible with one-on-one private divorce coaching. But wait there's more! . . . 

You will experience the private divorce coaching strategy, AND 12-month access to the Better Divorce Project online group coaching program and educational classes. Here is what you receive with the one-on-one divorce coaching package:

Private 12 month divorce coaching with Val Hemminger

  • 10, yes 10! full one-hour private coaching calls with Val to be used flexibly over the next 12 months. 
  • An actionable "to do" list for you every time we finish a call, so you know what to do next. 
  • 12-month access to the Better Divorce Project Program portal, which provides you with an online curriculum covering what you need to navigate your separation process peacefully and strategically.
  • Group weekly coaching calls on Fridays at 9 AM PST.
    Learn from others going through the same process. Know you are not alone! All group coaching calls are recorded to access at your leisure in case you miss a call. The skills and strategies will assist you greatly if you live in a no-fault province, state, or country. This is not legal advice but legal strategy that will allow you to get through your separation and divorce process as peacefully as possible, not only for you but for the benefit of your kids.
  • A private Facebook group community where you can ask questions as you go through what can be a complex process. You’ll find like-minded people who can relate to what you’re going through. You’re not alone. You will find when you ask a question, it helps other people. When they ask a question, it helps you. Social learning is powerful and effective
  • After your initial 12-month access, you will have an opportunity to continue with our community and online resources for a nominal monthly fee that makes it a no-brainer.

The One-on-One Private Divorce Strategy Coaching includes:

  • Ten (10) one-hour private one-on-one coaching and strategy sessions with Val that you can use anytime within a 12-month period 
  • An actionable to do list following each of our private one-on-one coaching strategy sessions
  • 12-month access to group coaching in the Better Divorce Project Program
  • 12-month access to online educational classes in the Better Divorce Project Program allowing you to discover ways to get your divorce done with less drama
  • 12-month access to a private Facebook Group where you will meet like-minded people facing the same challenges you are
  • Scheduling flexibility based on your unique needs and circumstances -- you have a full year to use the time. 
  • Problem solving and strategizing your next steps as it relates specifically to you and your changing family
  • All calls are recorded for your convenience and for future reference and implementation
  • Access to Val via Voxer (a free app) a full 24 hours before and after each call just in case you have new questions or pressing concerns.

"Your dedication and generosity has impacted me and will always serve as a reminder of the good in the legal world."
~ Stephen

"I needed somebody tough and smart, and I found Val. She's a wonderful, compassionate human being and  knows her stuff..."
~ Lynn

"It definitely helped  me on my  journey.  I'm now making choices to design the life that I want."
~ Rebekah

I want to work with Val!

Choose your preferred payment plan and get going!



 Pay in advance

Make 2  PAYMENTs

$4,497 each

First 2 months


$3247 each

First 3 months


$877 each

Each month

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is this legal advice?

No, this is legal strategy designed to help you navigate your divorce or separation.

Do I still need a lawyer?

I highly recommend that you hire a lawyer in your jurisdiction at the start of your process for some initial advice as to your legal rights and responsibilities, then again to review any final agreement or order, or when you go into any contested proceeding.

Can you refer me to a lawyer you think would do a good job?

Depending on your jurisdiction, we have a limited number of lawyers that we recommend. These lawyers are highly trained in dispute resolution strategies and have gone through the “Be the BEST Divorce Lawyer Academy” prior to being approved to be referred by us. 

Why should I do the Private one on one coaching versus the more basic Better Divorce Project Program?

Your private one-on-one coaching includes EVERYTHING that the Better Divorce Project Program offers, but you get the added benefit of 10 one-on-one private coaching sessions (and more) that is laser focused on your specific situation. You’ll feel fully supported and with solutions that are unique to your specific needs so that you can make it through your divorce as quickly and painlessly as possible.

"Absolutely call Val... for those of us who are in a heightened state or felling a little lost or feeling a little confused, Val actually shines a light on the key issues and she's able to make sure the judge sees those as well, which is the most important thing."
~ Leah

"I had to work with Val when I felt that my life was in absolute chaos. I felt that I could trust her, and I can't imagine what it would be like to be working with someone where it just felt like "business" or spending a lot of money and not knowing what you're getting."
~ Karen

"Val understood my situation. Val got it. She got us through all the games. I just really enjoyed working with Val...It took a lot of the pressure off when I was trying to resolve things that have been a hardship for so long."
~ Linda

I want to work with Val!

Or, do you want to know a bit more first?

Schedule a quick 20-minute call to see if we are the right fit for each other.

Tell Me More About the Value...

  • Ten (10) one-hour private one-on-one coaching strategy sessions with Val that you can use
    anytime within a 12-month period... $7,497
  • To do Action Reports following each coaching strategy call = $1,491
  • Private Voxer Access:  $997
  • The Better Divorce Project Program $497

Valued at:  $10,482 for just $7,497

I want to work with Val!

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Money back Guarantee:

I’m so confident that I can help you move through your separation and divorce process in terms of what steps you will take next and what is your best strategy, if you are not COMPLETELY satisfied after our first call, I will gladly give you your money back!